Dear Bun:

You can’t help feeling turned off by his ways, these are automatic reactions on your part. It doesn’t make you good or bad to be turned off by his feminine ways. Everyone likes certain things and dislikes other things.

Better then that you break up with him, end the relationship with kindness. It will be the honest thing to do for yourself and for him.

Acting honestly with ourselves and others, unlike liking/disliking this or that is a big part of being  good people.

anita