Hi Inky,

Thanks so much for your advice.

I am at University and go to college studying my dream degree – I graduated high school young. But mentally I don’t know how I suddenly got all these adult responsibilities so fast you know? Living out of home has accelerated the pace more than what it would have progressed if I were at home. I still feel like while I don’t really care for being single in terms of getting with people or messing around, being in a relationship is so much commitment for your time and energy and I never realised it before now.

I do still want to enjoy these years of my life. I think I’m going to talk to him and try work out a way to bring the relationship down a notch without ruining everything – if possible?