Dear Naia:

Yes, you can copy paste to me what you are referring to. I would like to read it.

The “destructive and malevolent” behavior on her part then is “some sarcastic comments” she made and bragging at a party she was not invited to. Well, like you wrote, “she’s not really destructive”.

But you wrote earlier that she is destructive. And you do walk on eggshells around her. What is the danger then, what is it about her that you fear?

I will soon be away from the computer for about 16 hours. I will look for your copy paste and reply when I am back.

anita