Hi,
I decided to first let the things ease into normal-it will in a mutual feiends meeting probably. And then tell him how the hot&cold treatment i got made me feel hurt. And i really enjoy our friendship but he needs to be more constructive- if he doesn’t like my attitude, he should directly adress the behaviour, not accuse me of being childish. I want him to understand that i feel hurt so if he does it again, this time i know he knows what he’s doing and i should not be friends with this person anymore. Is it stupid? I always want to choose to talk about this kinda situations hoping my relations will not turn into some kinda ego war, but i usually see people prefer not to talk, so i ask myself is it a desperate move to try to talk about everything?
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