Dear Laika:

You are welcome.

I am not focused and will be away from the computer soon. If you want to share more about your past relationships, anything relevant to your situation now, please do.

If you and your boyfriend do the exercise I suggested, or something similar that you see as more helpful, you can share the results here if you want. It may be helpful to you and hopefully to him as well.

I will be back to the computer in about sixteen hours, take good care of yourself.

anita