Hi, just came across this post while looking for ways to deal with my own ghosting.

I was in a relationship with this guy for eight months, and then he suddenly broke up with. No warning, no signs it was about to happen, nothing. It hurt so much but we were still talking and decided to be friends because we had so much in common. For four months we were “friends with benefits”, which worked well at first, but eventually we were so close anyone would think we were still in a relationship. I stayed at his house multiple times a week, we text each other all day every day, and spoke every night on the phone until one of us would fall asleep. We were in contact every single day. When I’d go there he would cook for me, I had a “side of the bed”, had clothes there, private jokes, everything. I spent the night there for his birthday And one day, not long after, he just didn’t reply to my texts. Ever again. I’m so confused and it’s hurting so much, not even knowing why. Nearly every single thing in my life is attached to some kind of memory of him from the past year. I don’t know what to do. I’m having trouble eating, sleeping, functioning as a human being. My past year has been consumed by him, and to go from every single day to absolutely nothing at all, and not even knowing why is killing me, I feel like I’m drowning.