Dear Anita, thought I would show you what we talked about today when it came down to our expectations for each other and copy paste it here.

(His expectations)
Keep a nice looking body as you do now.
Keep on being smart.
Not give up on our relationship.
To keep being the nice kind person i fell in love with .
To be patient with everything that comes your way.
To keep your health up and strong.
To talk to me more bout problems you have or may have in the future .
To let me know if your not sure about something .
I really hope to god you stay faithful and true to me and only me .
I would really like for you to be more open with me in the sexual department i know your shy
and its cute but i hope that sometimes you put the shy aside and just be as free and open minded as you want,
not all the time just some times .
I want you and i to be together living and working together on building a great home for our future
with a great environment like your family and i being close and you close to mine .

(My Expectations) 
1- You’re faithful
2- You’re honest
3- That he is open and tell me what is wrong so I don’t feel like I need to read his mind
4- That we compliment each other and help each other improve and grow
5- That you don’t joke around about girls to try and make me jealous
6- That you respect my decision and support them
7- That I can trust you if you tell me you are going to do something
or we decide to spend a night together just us
8- That we give each other space when it is needed
9- That you have goals in life
10- That you tell me if I did something that upset you instead of holding it in or forgetting about it
11- That you are willing to show a bit of interest sometimes in things that I find interesting
12- That you care for your health and get a checkup if you feel something is up
13- That you want to sometimes go on a vacation somewhere to relax
14- That you tell me if you would prefer something during sex or want to try something new
15- That we both try earn money for our future together.
16- That you show interest in being together with my family and walk the dogs with me.

How we think we can keep our expectations for each other: That we keep communicating with each other and that we’re open about things, that we listen to each other,
that he tries to get a job now and save up money, and I try to be more open when it comes to being intimate together.
(Not a major problem he says and it won’t stop him from liking me)
That we’re both saving up money for him to be able to come here in the future once he got a job as well of course.

– Laika