Dear Risha:

I am glad you tried. You feel so  sad. We feel sad when we lose something that was important to us. When we miss a person it is not all about missing who that person was, but what the person represented for us. We lose our hopes and dreams when a relationship ends. Often it is not what it was that we lose but what it could have been if only… if only he was different.

Hopes and dreams are powerful. Maybe you can try something different, share here your hopes and dreams, those that you lost when this relationship ended. Print away whatever thoughts and images you have, those lost. If you can and want to, of course.

I will be away from the computer for about an hour, and will be back to read from you, if you post by then.

anita