Dear Jenny Lynn:

You make sense. Glen- a bad idea, that is settled. Otherwise, you plan on starting a new job this coming October. You  plan to start school in August next year. You can move where you will be working, where you were previously living, this November, but if you stay living with your mother, you will be able to save money.

If you move this November/ this year, will you be able to finance yourself through planned school, paying rent and so forth? If so, move, I say. Look for reasonable rent, take your time looking and finding a good place to move to, that would be my first priority- living where I feel comfortable.

Best that you focus on the coming job, school, your career overall, and see friendships and relationships as less important, although necessary (at least friendships). Focus on making a better life for yourself. (As you can see if you read through this very thread, the time and energy you invested in relationships, particularly with Glen, did not benefit you).

anita