Dear Risha:

Thank you for your kind words in that last sentence. If I was there with you, I would console you, making you hot tea perhaps, or a cold lemonade if it is hot out. We would sit and talk and that would be so nice, I am thinking.

You asked: “Can anyone hurt someone that they love so much”?- my answer: depending on who is doing the loving. The meaning of the verb to love is all about who is the person who is doing the loving. If the person is self centered, then you get a.. self centered kind of loving. If the person is considerate, you get a considerate kind of loving… If the person is angry, you get an angry kind of love and so on and on.

His new girlfriend, to be his wife perhaps, she will get his type of love, self centered. She will also get his bad advice, the same kind you didn’t benefit from. I suppose she will also get his bad words and excuses and so forth.

anita