Hi Airene,

My best friend has told me he does not want to be in a relationship right now. Him and his ex have been together for 4 years and have broken up for a year now but still keep in contact since then. He’s explained to me how he is enjoying his freedom right now and how he used to be a serial monogamist so being alone right now is what he needs. We have spoken about our feelings towards each other. He has told me there has been times he’s wanted to take me serious and leave his past behind but how it would only hurt me more because he would still be stuck on his ex and not getting the closure he needs. I personally don’t believe him and his ex will last because they’ve had multiple breaks in the past and I believe that if the love is there and real he wouldn’t be putting it on hold and having other love interests. I’m very confused because apart of me feels like he is in denial for what he feels for me.