Dear leelee:

He texted you: “And sorry but I want us to take time, you need to know what you are getting into“. After you asked him what are you getting into, he answered: “exactly you need to discover”.

Well, if he is sincere, he wants you to discover what it is that you are getting into, so discover by  asking him again, in person, what he meant when he said what he said (the italicized). Certainly he meant something, so he better tell you what that something is. It is not fair to put it out there and then refuse to elaborate.

If he avoids the question, if he remains vague, then he is indeed playing a game. I hope not. You will find out soon enough. This will be easy to figure and you are welcome to post again with what happens next and what he says.

anita