Dear Notebookb6:

If you are okay with being asked lots of question, then I am okay with asking you more.

You wrote, “he didn’t give me the answers … I’ve been searching for the meaning of life”- I don’t think he had answers to give you. “(I) asked him how to be happy, he would answer me ‘don’t be sad’ which I find it not a solution”- he didn’t have a better answer nor a solution to give you.

You wrote, “I found that his happy go lucky attitude towards life is the key to happiness”- but you can’t make it your attitude because this attitude was formed in his brain during the years of his childhood and yours was formed in your brain during the years of your childhood. It takes years for an adult to significantly change the mapping of one’s brain.

When you complained to him, he smiled, you wrote. Did he react that way from the very beginning or was it after months or years of you complaining?

How often did you complain to him and what were the first complaints about?

anita