Dear Risha:

I thought about you this morning before turning on the computer, planning on looking for your thread and posting an how-are-you message to you, and here you are!

I am fine, thank you for asking. Regarding him calling you repeatedly. I think that it doesn’t matter whether you answer him or not. If you can emotionally handle it, then it doesn’t matter. It will not change the situation either way.

So, yes, it doesn’t matter. It is up to you then. If you do talk to him, expect nothing, no big news, just some of the same-old-same-old with at best some interesting piece of news that will make no difference to your life. I suppose it is better that you don’t talk to him, but what I am saying is that it makes no practical difference to your life.

anita