Vibrant_me

Welcome to the forum. Don’t be worried about thinking of him. You loved him right? So it’s a loss, you can acknowledge it as such. I know you are working hard to improve your own wellbeing, which is fantastic. But there is nothing that tells you that you have to instantly be over your ex. When a loving relationship ends, it’s okay to grieve, it’s ok to miss him. It means you’re human.

My ex ended it with me 7 weeks again and I’d be lucky to find a five minute period in a day where I don’t think of him. Let the thoughts of him come and go without reading into them too much.

In time, the thoughts will become less frequent. I’m so sorry it didn’t work out and I do hope your new journey brings you peace and fulfilment.