Kkasxo,

I definitely know I’m not in a position to consider it just at the minute as even the prospect of it increased my anxiety. I think I just need to get on an even keel before I start making any big decisions.

It sounds like you have a plan anyway if the arrangement with your ex doesn’t work out, which is good. The thing is, I expect you will still enjoy each other’s company, but is that enough.

I know in my own case if I met up with my ex tomorrow, I’d love being in his company, and I think he enjoys being with me too. We don’t have any issues getting on with each other but it’s the overall issue that stopped us being together. If I never brought up about the future, or making plans, I’m fairly sure I’d still be with my ex in ten years time, doing along as we’ve always gone along.

But it may throw some light on your situation and garner you extra information that might help you decide what is the best next step for you.

Ooh keep me posted! I’ll let you know how the shopping goes!