Hi MeditateMe,

Please don’t throw away a marriage with a child for some college boyfriend who broke up with you over “Nothing”.

They ALWAYS do this, these married or otherwise old college sweethearts!

Let me lay it out for you: He’s like you, married with a family and he’s getting bored. He digs out his proverbial little black book (what guys had before computers) and stumbles upon your number/social media/address/old yearbook photo.

He says “I remember Girlfriend Nothing! I wonder what she’s up to? Oh, she’s married *scoffs*. Well, she can’t be any happier than I am! Surely I will give her a call! Then when she dumps her hapless husband for me I’ll renew my vows with my wife!”

Please, if you’re going to get a divorce, wait until your child is older, and don’t do it because of that sad sap. Save yourself. This is just a test from the Universe.

Best,

Inky