Dear Cat:

Good to communicate with you!

You wrote: “I’ve always thought that if someone else is suffering then I need to suffer too”. Thing is, as you suffer, someone else believing like you do (and lots of people do) will be watching you suffer and say to themselves: Cat  is suffering, I need to suffer too. And then someone else will watch that someone suffering… you see my point?

(If you are happy, and someone is seeing you happy, maybe he/she will say: I can be happy too!).

I live  right under British Columbia, so we are.. almost close. By the way, I recently watched Queen, the movie, did you?

anita