Hi Sierra,

This feels like a classic case of Dump Her before she Dumps Me.

The moment you said you “lost feelings” was the moment you gave him permission to check out other options. The male ego is a tremendous, yet fragile thing. And God forbid he leaves the fate of the relationship in your hands. (This is all going on subconsciously.)

Enter Girl #2!

End of story. She could literally be anyone.

DON’T call him. DON’T chase him. DON’T meet up with him for HIM to dump you. If he catches you on the phone, just say, “This isn’t working”. BOOM! DONE! You broke up with HIM, and now YOU are officially the One That Got Away!

Maybe Next Year, Buddy. Maybe.

Best,

Inky