Dear  Dee:

He was probably sincere when he revealed his physical attraction for you (“he claimed that he fancied me last year, he showered various compliments on me, said he ad the hots for me, and ultimately revealed a physical attraction for me”). And he is also sincere when he reveals to other women his physical attraction to them.

You wrote, “It’s so weird that a guy would do this after they tell you they are attracted to you”-

Not weird at all.  Lots of men tell multiple women that they are attracted to them, this is how they promote their chances of sex with women. And there is always sincerity there because a man has to  be somehow, somewhat attracted to a woman to desire sex with her.

I think you associate sexual attraction with monogamy, and you incorrectly think it is the same for him, or that it is the same  for all men?

anita