I know its silly, but I kind of miss him, and I cant help but think whether he missed me or not. is it really desperate when I say I want him to contact me again somehow? I know I should forget all about him because of his dishonestly and lack of morals, but its hard for me to control my emotions when it comes to men, well, boy in this case. I felt like I was special to him. and now I just feel stupid for believing all his fake words. please advice me.

What you’re feeling is totally normal. You developed an attachment to him during the time you dated, and the need you’re feeling is most likely just related to that. It’s honestly good this happened NOW rather than years down the road when your attachment was much stronger, making him much harder to detach from.

I say you can do much, much better than what he has given you, so if I were you, I would just try to detach and get over him. At the very least, ask yourself if you really want a relationship with someone that would be dishonest with you right away? That would mean you could never fully trust him. The need to see him will pass after a while and I’m sure you’ll find someone who will treat you much better, and that’s what’s important. There are plenty of guys out there who are totally capable of both making you feel super special and also being faithful and honest to you, and those are the guys I would go for if I were you.