Hi NeedMeSomeBuddha,

I honestly don’t know if contacting him would be a good idea but I can tell you something that helped me immensely when my ex went ghost on me just as recent as a few weeks ago. I stopped trying to contact her and took a few days to let my mind level out, then I wrote down on paper some things I felt I had to say. Over the course of a couple more days, (with a clearer mind) I refined those statements and questions into a letter. I ended up posting the letter some days later, (we live close by) I have no idea if she has even read it but the whole process of doing it, and those days it was sat around finished before I posted it, I found I had a much easier time dealing with the uncertainty as what I wanted to say was all ‘out’.