Hi Anita,

I feel What you described is exactly what I was hoping for; a relationship that him and I spoke about. I find myself justifying his actions because I made a certain mistake almost as if he wouldn’t do the things he did if I didn’t act the way I did. But that’s not true.  Having read what you wrote made me realize, the right man would not do all those things. He would want to know what was wrong and try to talk/work things out.

I have a lot of added pressure by my parents and my Indian culture.  I’m 33 yrs. old, by my age most women are married and done having kids in my culture. Everyone in my family, all my younger female cousins are married, I’m the only one that’s single.  I know I shouldn’t compare, but that’s what my entire family does. So when I meet a man and it goes well then all of a sudden doesn’t, I take it twice as hard. I try and not let it get to me but it’s difficult.  My parents try not to pressure me as they are modern but sometimes they seem so disappointed.

I do want a relationship, and as you said I want to love and be loved.  I would absolutely love your help. Thank you for offering.  When you have time would love to find out more about the relationship resume.