Dear Feathering:

Four days ago, Nov 22, you wrote to me: “your last message hurt me… I spent much of today having fantasies of either blowing my brains out with drugs… Fantasies of slitting by wrists and  bleeding to death fitted in and out  of my mind afterwards. I’ve  been aware  of this side to myself and had issues with drugs and self harm in the  past”.

In your recent message yesterday, you wrote to me: “You didn’t cause the hurt, it existed before you”.

I agree with the latter, but unfortunately, how can I possibly keep communicating with you if a message I posted to you which had no  intent at all to  distress you and was  not at all  abusive to you, triggered your fantasies of severe self harm, knowing you have a history of self harm.

This is not a question I am asking you. It is simply very unwise and irresponsible for me  to continue to communicate with you following what you wrote, quoted here.

Goodbye, Feathering. There   will be  no  further posting from me  to you. I wish you well.

anita