Dear Jessica512:

I wonder about how  old is your ex girlfriend and  if  she  lives  with her parents, if you were  her first gay relationship? These are important when considering possibly resuming the relationship.

I know  of a  woman who also came  out as a   lesbian late after being married and  having  two children, quite  common I  think. Did you research online regarding support groups for gay people coming out?

I imagine there are such resources online. I do hope you feel better soon,  hope  to read  more from you.

anita