Brandy,

Thanks so much for the advice. You are absolutely right, I would dearly love to be happy independently. That’s my problem, I obviously want to get back with my ex because I feel so unhappy now, all my happiness seems to have been caught up in my relationship with him.

Susan Jeffers in her book, Feel the Fear and Do it Anyway,  she writes about ‘how whole is your life’ and I’m embarrassed to admit, I let the relationship become almost all of my life. Probably why I’m feeling so lost and empty now.

I just have no clue where to start now trying to make myself happy. But I’ll certainly start with your advice, thank you so much.