I took her having him come as in just for a little until they found a place, I had no idea she was meaning for him to move in and me move out hah caught me COMPLETELY off guard. She would never move him in expecting to keep the situation like that; it would either be him move in completely and me move out, or her move out. I am not going to move out so she will just have to go, even though I voiced it being cool that he comes to stay for a bit.

All it boils down to is me having to live with this intense negative energy until the next step happens – whatever that may be. There’s nothing I can say that would change her behavior and energy she brings. It is really effecting me but I am trying to stay strong – knowing no outside force should effect my state of being. It is challenging however, when you live with the person.

Thanks so much for always responding.