Hi cranberry,

Valora’s advice is spot on.

At best, he has a passing interest in you or is socially clueless. At worst, he is grooming you to be “chill”, to be the girlfriend that never questions, or you won’t be “cool”.

Either choice, or the nebulous spectrum in between isn’t for you.

I would go radio silence until he calls or texts…. and then call/text him the next day. The next time he flakes, say “I don’t like that” and then not see him for a while.

When he sees you are busy, serious and unattached, his act should clean up, or he will be gone.

Either outcome is good.

Inky