Thank you Anita, I really appreciate your suggestions and generosity of your time. I have contacted Al-anon and find the once a week meetings good but not frequent enough to pass the weak moments when I am drawn back to help. I also don’t have the freedom of attending meetings regularly. Ultimately I would like to build an online network of contacts I can communicate with so I can stay strong through this process and ground myself and refocus. I am falling behind in my work duties and neglecting an upcoming exam just to help him out.

I am new on this forum, is there a way members can private message?

Thanks again.