Hi seeker,
It happens to everyone. Long ago a guy fell for me… who turned out to be my second cousin!! Then only people freaking out were our extended family. (My dad had no problem with it!) So no guilt, OK? It happens.
Forgive me if I’m totally mistaken, but do you have arranged marriages in your country? What do your parents say? Have someone else set you up or introduce you to people.
I’ve fallen for shorter guys myself. And a scar just gives you character! View things that way.
What you need is confidence. The worst thing that can happen is someone says no thank you. So what? That just means your life stays the same, and your life’s not so bad. But if (WHEN!) someone says yes, that’s just a new experience.
Good Luck,
Inky
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