Thanks everyone for your responses! I had a session with my counsellor last night to go over some of the issues I’m having.  She advised me not to reach out to him and let him come to me. I need to work on my attachment issues and issues of self worth. If he doesn’t put the effort in to want to talk or see me than I just need to walk away.

I don’t think that I was being needy but I started going back and thinking of everything and realize maybe I was, but now I’m beating myself up about it and scared that I scared away a great guy. That’s what brings up my anxiety too.

I tend to get into this pattern where I chase a guy if he’s not giving me much interest and I want to stop doing that and take my power back. So I will try with this guy to just let things be and see what happens and know I’ll be ok no matter what.