Dear Eli:

It is the choices we find ourselves facing: bad  and  not as bad… which one hurts less.

I settled for a lot of “not as bad” situations that were bad. I didn’t know that there was a third possibility, I only knew  of two: bad and worse.

I hope there is a third  possibility for you too. Maybe you don’t see it now, just like I didn’t  see  it for many, many years.

I will soon be away from the computer and  back tomorrow morning, my time. It has become a pleasure to communicate with you recently as we have so much in common (unfortunately for the two of us!). I hope to read more from you, maybe about that third  possibility. Back in about sixteen hours.

anita