Dear Eli:

You are welcome. Do your  best to  be rational and calm when you talk  with him, when you listen to him. Intend to have only one purpose at this point, talking to him, and that one purpose is: to get information about his plan. Do your best to be patient as you ask and listen, don’t express anger, don’t  argue! If you do, your objective will not be achieved.

You want to know his plan, that is all. If he doesn’t have answers to your basic questions, such as what I brought up to you, then it  means he didn’t think much about his plan, and that gives you information in itself, that he didn’t  think about his plan, but instead just blurted it out.

Be calm, don’t argue throughout talking to him. If you feel that you are getting angry, stop the conversation, relax and later let me know what he said. After that you can have another conversation with him. Be patient.

anita