Dear BB:

“Wife doesn’t want  children but I do” is in the title  of your thread, a statement  you made only  yesterday.

You also wrote: “I had always been out that I wanted kids someday“.

But later on your thread you wrote that currently, true to yesterday: “I do not want kids right now and don’t know if I ever will or won’t“.

Later on you wrote: “I never lied to her, I was honest from the start what I would like and for 12 years my opinion hasn’t changed, though I am open minded enough to say maybe I like the idea  of kids but will never financially ready for them. She admitted to lying to me for years”

My input: you expressed the following as your position about having kids: yes, no, and maybe. It is not true that “for 12 years (your) opinion hasn’t changed”, it has changed a few times during  this one  thread.

anita