Dear Anita,

I am also thinking about one of your first comments today, the fact that you wrote that when you were unwell you thought that you could help your sister. And that perhaps I believe that I can help my sister. I wonder if that is still relevant given our conversation thus far. Perhaps it is true, I need to  stray away from how much I try to “help” my sister and simply try to “protect her from abuse”.  I wonder what that means, I am sure we can elaborate more tomorrow as I know you will be heading away from the computer