Dear Jonny:

I agree with you, that what  is right for you to do is to separate from your wife, to do so legally with the best interest of  you and your children, the  minor child, being 12 and the young adult, twenty years old.

Lots of things can be  worked  on and improved in a relationship, but “Foul languages, finding fault with   me and kids is her daily routine  now” is a big enough reason to separate as soon as  possible.  I hope you see a good divorce lawyer and proceed with the  legal requirements  for a  separation.

Post again anytime  you’d like and I will be glad to reply to you.

anita