Hi Anita,

Just to add some background info. We met in person before, and then the 2nd time (about 6 months later)  is when we got together. Over the course of talking to him for that year, we saw each other about 3-4 times during weekend trips etc.

I personally feel like he talked to me so long because he needed a female companion. He explained to me that he always had a girlfriend, and I was there for him this year through some of the most difficult things he’s ever had to deal with. I think when “he wanted me back”, he really just needed someone around for Chirstmas…really to be talking to a girl, and have that “girlfriend” mentality around the holiday.

When he first called me and I asked why, he said it was because he missed me. A few days later when I asked again, he said it was because he felt bad about the ways things ended. I think he just used me as someone to talk to.