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January 5, 2019 at 11:09 am #272421
Lily
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Dear anita,

to say yes to sex when it wasn’t love. Or I don’t know. I don’t judge others when they have casual sex. But that is not what I want for myself.

He said on the phone “but I always asked if you’re o.K.”. And he said: “The last thing I wanted was to hurt you”. Now he is hurt because he has hurt me. Now he has to live with this experience. I should have said no, when I wasn’t comfortable with this. But somehow I really couldn’t!