Kkasxo,

Yes I am now going to my sister’s hairdresser so I’m happy enough with the results, so it’ll do for now! I’m having a low moment myself today. I had to drive a colleague to a meeting earlier and I passed by lots of places I frequented with my ex and it just hurt, still hurts. I just want to go back to being an ‘us’, it just seems like such a waste and a pity to me.

Well done on each time you resist contacting your ex. It’s not at all silly to want to contact him, on the contrary, it seems completely normal as he has been the one to offer you comfort in your times of need for some years and he knows everything you are going through at the moment, more than anyone else in a way, so you want to speak to someone who can relate exactly. However in this instance, that person is not the one who can solve this. Only you can work it out with the support of those who truly want what’s best for YOU.

I’m a complete rookie….but can you tell me what non-surgical reshaping is????!!!! I’ve never heard of it but it sounds like something I could really use!