Dear afeels:

I like your resolution here: “I don’t think I should delve any deeper into psychology books. I need to live!”- I agree! I no longer read any psychology/ self help books myself, or articles and such, not in the last few years and I don’t intend to do so.

I think I understand what you meant by “I don’t think it’s healthy/ right to discard my mother”- your mother ended contact with her mother and “Consequently she is angry and resentful”, so you think that your mother is angry and resentful because she cut ties with her mother, that is, your mother cutting ties with her mother was unhealthy for her. Did I understand correctly?

anita