Dear Anita,

We are in a relationship. Not the physical relation but yes we are in love with each other. Considering all the things we discussed so far, i am clear that I will have to break up with him so that he can stay happily with his wife and I can move ahead. Now I just need help to understand as how shall I breakup. Shall I update him that we are breaking up and we wont talk or should i slowly stop the chats and then gradually end it?