Dear grounded:

Losing a friend group is unfortunately what often happens when a romantic relationship with one member in the group ends.

“How do  I give up and let go of the idea of being together with him?”-

-by being grounded in reality, like your name suggests, being grounded. For as long as you are floating above ground in bubbles of Fantasy, you are not grounded in Reality.

I can try to help you with the How through a back and forth communication with you. If you are interested, let’s start: tell me about the Fantasy, what wishful thoughts and very pleasant  feelings are in experiencing when you find yourself floating in a bubble of Fantasy?

anita