Do you usually celebrate both the anniversary of both when you meet someone and when you start dating? or does the meet date count as the annual anniversary?  I’m just asking because I haven’t heard of anyone celebrating the anniversary of meeting before, so I’m not sure how that works.

But yeah, I agree. Things are different with your current girlfriend and that’s not your fault. You can’t help that your feelings aren’t there for her. That’s not something you can control. I really think the sooner you rip off the band-aid and start working actively on a different place for her to move to, the better off everyone in your situation will be.

How long did things feel really right with your current girlfriend for? Did that feeling last a while or was it short-lived? You got with her really soon after you and your ex ended things, right?