Hi Kenneth,

This is why we don’t date co-workers. The job lasts longer than the relationship, nine times out of ten. And then you have to see the person. Every. Day.

That is probably what she’s going through. It will never be the same. If she’s cold, it’s horrible because you work together. If she’s friendly she gives you false hope.

My advice? The best way to win her back is to get another job.

She’ll be all, “Wait. What?” and will have to proactively communicate with you and pursue you instead of this passive seeing you at the office so she doesn’t have to do any work dynamic.

And if it’s truly over, this way it will be over.

Best,

Inky