I meant that I was scared she may hurt herself.

Well today I broke the subject with her again and told her how I feel, that I do not want to have a life without a family. She broke down sobbing, it was heart wrenching. I called her mum to take her to her parents house so I knew someone was with her and got a telling off from my mother in law. Apparently I have no idea what I’m asking of my wife and am being unreasonable and that I have put lots of pressure on her. Even though my mother in law has 3 kids two of which have kids of their own she still basically told me that having kids is difficult and unpleasant and that I shouldn’t want it.

I responded saying that I just want what everyone else wants but she told me I was being naive. I feel like I’m the bad guy here, we both decided to spend the night at our respective parents houses. Oh my wife did decide that she would really like to try to want to have kids though, this after I broached the subject and she realised I was actually going to go through with this.

Now I don’t know whether to trust her or not, or whether to just call this done regardless of how much it hurts my wife. In am very confused right now.