Hi Canela,

You don’t find quality people generally on Tinder. People on Tinder generally won’t consider you a quality person if you meet on Tinder. It’s like expecting a marriage proposal from a guy in a bar. That’s not what Tinder is for.

So first forgive yourself for taking any guy you meet seriously that you met on Tinder. Forgive yourself for going on Tinder.

Next time, forget “going with the flow”. Never let yourself be intimate with anyone again who does not love you.

That’s just me, of course.

Don’t think you’re used and unworthy just because you’ve been playing on an unworthy app where people use each other.

Best,

Inky