Serife,

I am sorry about your harassment especially when it comes from “friends.” Unfortunately that you are feeling worthless based on the disrespect and misogamy of those around you.  Saying such degrading things and hide behind “it’s just a joke” is cowardly.

You don’t say how old are you but that’s irrelevant for this happens in every culture at every age unfortunately.

#MeToo

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Go find the resources that can assist you in this.

It’s all about standing up for yourself and setting boundaries.  Easy to say. Hard to do.  Good that you called out your “friend” on going along with the others and laughing.  Good for you for declaring that you indeed have the perfect right to be mad.

Get the support around you (in person) and online (MeToo) so that you won’t tolerate such behavior from ANYone, much less your “friends.”

Mark