Dear Yarina:

I don’t understand the situation. I don’t understand what you mean by him checking on Tinder where you work, where you live, and what gym you attend (I am not familiar with Tinder). Is all that information in Tinder? And would it have been more appropriate if he asked you those things?

Nor do I understand what you mean by him wanting “to take a lead” in your relationship.

I will soon be away from the computer for about sixteen hours. If you’d like to explain to me what I don’t understand, please do. I will read and reply to you when I am back to the computer, in about sixteen hours from now. I hope other members will reply to you before I return.

anita