Hello Anita,

I completely understand what you are saying and I agree with you. It has been on my mind for days as I have gone by. My brothers birthday was Friday so I definitely had to reach out and wish him well on his day. I am so hurt by him and his actions since this woman but I do have to stay I lost myself with my ex but I never stopped loving my family. So any way that I was acting I wasn’t intentionally doing so. So it is hard to cut ties or keep it superficial. He is not that great for emotional support but has ALWAYS been there as far as answer my call, pick me up, have me over, or anything I needed. I think our moms passing definitely has us breaking apart. I know I need to find new supportive loving people but I don’t think I want to lose my brother. I love him and my niece so much. I miss them. I do not wish to be around that woman though! Beside that I have been quite depressed these days! Struggling with living with my aunt still. Trying to find the best solution. I did pick up a second Job as to save and am hoping this helps distract me from living arrangements at the moment.