Dear Lola:

You opened your August 2018 thread with: “.. My boyfriend and I have been together about 7 months and I tend to get anxiety from relationships because I was in an abusive relationship”-

-throughout the two page thread you did not describe abuse on his part and you repeatedly wrote that you argued with him because of your anxiety.

On this thread, seven months later, you wrote: “In September, I got out of an emotionally abusive relationship. My ex continued talking to me until mid December when I told him I couldn’t handle it anymore”-

-does it mean then that your 2018 boyfriend became abusive beginning after your last thread, on about September last year?

anita